Explore Your Desires Today!

Have you ever felt like you wanted to explore your sexuality but weren't sure how?  


Sound familiar? 

Hi, I'm Dr. Ali Mushtaq and I know exactly how you feel. 

  • Imagine overcoming any blocks, including any safety or mental health concerns, that might limit your exploration.
  • Imagine having infinite possibilities to explore your desires.
  • Imagine knowing the cultural, historical, and spiritual factors that limit you from exploring your own sexuality and working through them. 
  • Imagine feeling like this empowerment can happen inside and out.


Like many, I grew up in a conservative area that discouraged me from exploring who I am. Through my doctoral training at University of California: San Francisco in Sociology, I learned about how society constrains individuals from reaching their potential, and the ways that individuals can maximize their ability to explore their identities. With this knowledge, I became an advocate for helping others explore their sexuality, and was profiled in the New York Times as Mr. Long Beach Leather 2016.  Now I help others reach their potential so they lead fulfilling lives. 

Introducing........

The Fundamentals of BDSM: A Master Class.

A series that is designed to teach you the basics of BDSM, but also, remove potential blocks to help you explore your sexuality.
Explore Now!

Empowering Lives

"Absolutely Empowered to Explore"

Sitra Sin-Sitara Sin, burlesque performer and aspiring pro-domme

""Ali has been a tremendously thoughtful, comprehensive, and kind instructor. For a complete beginner to the world of prodomming, I left our first session feeling absolutely empowered to explore the wide world of domination, especially after Ali’s breakdown of how to assess consent and establish power dynamics. I’ll definitely be signing up for more workshops as they come along. Thank you, Ali!"